Stimulating Conversations

I am Cynigal. Welcome to the first edition of Cyn’s Sins (your Sunday sermon!), where I will dish about recent encounters and other random sexiness. It’s only fitting that it’s on a Sunday. I’m a 20something female, student and real estate agent. I haven’t ever really dated. I’ve basically been in a relationship since I was 16. My first one last 3 years, right after that I got into a 7 year relationship. A few months ago I broke up with Mr. 7 years. No, no, I’m fine. I’m not bitter. No, seriously, I not. It was the easiest break up in the world. We’re best friends, and living with each other for the next month. Since then I have met numerous guys and been out on quite a few dates. The experiences have been horrible to pretty good. I’ve noticed certain trends and differences between the dating rituals of men of different ages. I’ve had some funny stuff happen. So, every Sunday I am going to treat you to a dating story, an observation or perhaps something else! You never know! I am random.

I’m at the stage in my life where the thought of being in a relationship kind of frightens me. I’m enjoying being single. I realize now how much of myself I gave up in my relationships and now I’m enjoying re-exploring those parts of myself that I have forgot. Now, I’m not dissing on relationships, I’m sure I’ll be in another one eventually, because while playing the field is fun, it’s also kinda tiring and I think a relationship could be most rewarding. However, like I said, I am so not there right now.

Since I was in a relationship through most of my “prime” single years, I have a lack of people to go out. Most of my friends that were always trying to get me to go out before, are now in relationships, or married, or -gasp- have kids! My other problem is that I am not a drinker, and I really hate bars. But surprise, surprise, I have found myself drinking at bars as of late. When alcohol is involved, hilarity and promiscuity ensue! Oh the tales I will tell. But not this week. Cause this week I am purely introductory. I don’t put out on the first column.